This is a topic many people tend to think or have questions about. Is there actually a right way? Not quite. Some may be more effective than others however there is no “right way.” If we all believed there was a right way then that would make a good family. A good family would make a positive healthy environment in our society.
Even though genetics may have an impact on why a child behaves a certain way, there are alternatives to help cope with the situation rather than getting aggressive. Since parents play an important role in a child’s development, a few important qualities needed to parent are listed below…
A parent should always consider that they are raising a future adult. Although there may be moments where a child pees in their pants, or forgets to brush their teeth, the behavior and attitude brought to communicate with other people will determine their manners and own character as a person.
When communication is used correctly, this ensures that the child will understand to eat proper foods, dress appropriately, or even in bed by a certain time. This will allow them to set their own limits and to keep aware of how capable they are to make their own decisions.
To go along with communication, there needs to be a time and place for parents to listen to their children. Trust plays a very big factor in a relationship. If a child is unable to feel comfortable asking questions, this may make it difficult to move forward with their troubles that their parents may have experienced themselves.
When doing some research, I had found in a study that 41% of parents in a National parent survey, have explained expectations and consequences to their own children. This was interesting to me because their own parents did not do this technique. Therefore I believe that not everyone raises their children the exact way they have been raised.
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I definitely did not raise my daughter the way I was raised
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